Val I would also like to thank you for this post. My sitch sounds very similar to yours. I don't know if OW is threatening all those things but I do know she walked out one night after a row b/c our S15 was there staying with H. We aren't D yet but H is pressing for one and has started the ball rolling via Ls. Up until last weekend I was fighting the D but I decided last weekend to change that (although H doens't know that yet). I so hope you never have to sign those forms.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15