thanks for your reply betteroff....you do make sense. I have been journalling heaps earlier this week but it was more to get what happened down on paper so I had a record than it was for proper journalling purposes.

My sister has said essentially the same thing as you, i just really appreciate seeing different approaches written down.

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If he hasn't already given it to you at that point he may, over a period of time, do a double-take (re-think, feel guilty, etcetera) and give it to you then.


I hope you are dead on here. If I can just ask, and then be quiet and accept his answer, whatever he chooses to say, he may reconsider later on.

It's just eating me up to know why he won't give it to me. Do you think maybe he doesn't even know why?


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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