Hey BlueJay thank you for sharing, I don't really fit the bill of being the very romantic spoiling type, I do treat her pretty well, but nothing that would make you sick. I'm not whipped or anything, except perhaps in the sex dept. She holds all the cards there. In the past I have handled the sex thing in an angry way and have been trying a softer approach. I'm angry cause of the pain caused by the rejections. I told her the wedding date is off until she is willing to address the prob/ work on the solution, and I'll stick to that. I can't help but blame some of this on myself though. She's been abused in her past, maybe I'm not patient enough about that, or haven't tried to help her out with that. I blow up on her all the time when I get rejected, (Which I've tried to stop). She will still have sex 1 or maybe (big maybe) 2 times a week if were getting along. It's just not enough for my personal needs, plenty for some ppl though I'm sure. Are we compatable for each other sexually and does she care that my needs aren't being met? Answer to the first question is no, but the 2nd question I'm still not 100% on yet, and I know everyone thinks she doesn't care, but you all only have the limited info I can convey to you in 2 days. I have to ride it out longer, to make sure. She's very important to me. She puts up with all my [censored] and is really fair and loving in all other areas but this. I'm heeding everyones advice, but its hard to cut off your right arm, she is a fixture in my life. I have decided however, I will end this relationship if I can't get anywhere in the next few months with her.
