I should point out that last Sunday, he got physical with me because he thought I was undermining his relationship with d6 and preventing him from spending time with her (because I took her to the beach after I told him that he couldn't take her to the beach adn that I wanted her home) and I called the police.
I just am not comfortable with posting the whole lot here at the moment. I just want him out of my life (but not d's) at the moment but I'm not sure if that's a permanent feeling or still shock at what has gone on.
I may post a summary later on. I think for now, I need to stop ruminating on it. I took d to her counsellor yesterday and I have an appointment with a new individual counsellor on Monday, so I just need to breathe and just be.....