Hi there...I hope this is the post you wanted me to check in on...
I can relate to this very much...my H didn't believe my changes were for real...I did prove him wrong...while I wasn't always perfect I certainly worked and continue to work on being the best person I can...I thank him often, ask for his patience, and apologize when he points out something to me...
As for he sex...boy how I can relate...H has been home for roughly a year and half...it was only this last March that he could finally say he loved me again...I initiated everything in the beginning...felt like you did...but just kept at it...like you I felt that if I did it would help our overall connection...
I think it is finally working...he does initiate at times...he has some "performace issues" so I have to be extra understanding...just don't pressure...if he seems "agreeable" then go with it...if he seems like it is too much at the moment then back off...
