I went out to visit a friend last weekend in Delaware. Saw a football game, had some laughs, went to the gym several times and just had a good weekend. I was purposefully vague to my kids about who I visited out east. Hopefully my wife will be curious, but, maybe not. My oldest daughter (D11) called me on Sunday night and asked me what I was doing and who I was visiting. Haven't heard from my ex in almost 2 months (she communicates exclusively through the kids - which I think is really lame). I still really miss her. She doesn't know that. I hope she will contact me sometime. In the meantime, I'm taking about2bdivorced's advice. Keeping the karma bin full. Getting plenty of exercise and keeping my eyes open for pretty girls. Dating for me at this point is still easier said than done.