Morgan-- I could have written your last post, exactly. I am not sharing anything with the in-laws anymore. She went to the dr today...he asked how she was, and she started crying. He put her on zoloft.
I hope that they get to some kind of better place over Thanksgiving; more for them than for him at this point. My in-laws are in a VERY hard place, being they live in my house! Or is it H that is in the hard place? Not sure, but I don't feel like it's me anymore.
I have 2 dates with 2 different guys this weekend. MK, I would say all three. You are not looking for a relationship or replacement father for the kids, right? My IC said it should be alright as long as you don't get emotionally tied up right away--take things much slower than what even feels "right," use your head over your heart, etc. I do NOT want to slip right back into codependency!! She also said that there is something developmental about being a woman on your own for a period of time as an adult in your life. Neither of us really had that. I am looking forward to the Age of Donna...
