Originally Posted By: Seew22
I get it. I can't do everything in the R. I appreciate all of your insight on the issue, I'm grateful for the advice. She's really a good person, we just might not be sexually compatable and I guess that's ok.


No, you still dont "get it".

It's not that you have different sex drives.
It's that she doesnt care about your needs

Why would you possibly want to marry, or even be in a long term relationship with, a person who, when you tell them, "this is a really big problem for me", basically responds with..

"... well, it isnt a problem for ME! so, no problem here."


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle