thanks tfh. With the way she's texting you'd think there's an EA if he had any interest. Of course in her head we are done so it's none of my business, even though we are not D yet. It doesn't matter. As I have already decided, I will worry about me getting better and improving. If she sees that and wants that then great, if not, it's her loss. I am worthwhile. If that's what she wants to pursue by all means. Hopefully she'll learn her lesson. But that man is not coming anywhere near my kids if I can help it. If it's a regular friend, I've no problem with them meeting the kids. If it's a romantic interest, I will not have my kids go through any of the emotional trauma while she attempts to figure out whether she wants to be with this person or not. No way no how!
It also helps that MIL likes me. She really does not care for W's xBF. So probably won't be too happy about anyone new either consider I'm the father of her grandkids.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
