Alright I get it now, she is unwilling to work with the sexual imbalance that we have, she isn't doing anything actively to solve the problem like I am with the books, the messageboards etc. Maybe she doesn't understand the seriousness of it yet. Maybe she never will. I will do everything I can do in my power to solve this problem, with tests/counseling etc. But in the end, she has to want to fix it as well. I get it. I can't do everything in the R. I appreciate all of your insight on the issue, I'm grateful for the advice. She's really a good person, we just might not be sexually compatable and I guess that's ok. I know I can't force it, no matter how much I want to. It hurts pretty bad, but I'll work through it. I will keep you guys posted in the future for anyone that's interested in what happens.
