OK, I've got an axe to grind, so I may as well do it now. I was used by a man who was married to a low desire woman. She had sex with him once a month, some months. But they had 2 children, so the world wouldn't have guessed. He saw me and thought, I can test my sexual prowess out on that woman. He used me for the sex he couldn't get at home for almost a year. Sometimes, he whispered her name when we had sex. Or told me next week is our anniversary, when it was his anniversary with her! Then when I finally broke it off, he still used me as his imaginary lover. Probably for several years. He was sick. He called me for years afterward. Do you want to be like that?
