1) When the O happens, a chemical is release to put hubby to sleep and you WIDE awake. Sort of a mini-heat for women because nature designed women to have mulptle partners for genetic diversity till modern society made this taboo, because of disease.
2) Guys like in the morning and women at night, I can vouch for this, I was sat/sun morn and she was any night, what is hubby, do you remember you wanting to be close in the eveing and him not being interested...my guess you are a morning person, and he is night.
3) we did it spontaneous a few times in the middle of the day, but I ended up with a ache, in the nether region. So I prefer when we had plenty of time to recoup. ie. sat.sun morn.
4) After numereous sex talk go arounds, about being the initiater
What we agreed is the person who wanted sex would have their underwear off in bed. So when I came to bed and see underwear on the floor, quick trip to bathroom to brush teeth and splash cologne on. She wore a nightgown so kids never could tell. As a rule I did not have to take my off to let her know becuase she wanted it everyday. This worked okay.
One interesting thing she mention, when we were dating, and necking, no sex I would get the proverbial blue ba&$s, she admitted that she got the same ache. Its hard to believe we were close friends once, ugh!!
