I guess I'm confused by this. I mean... just because his wife has an O before he does during intercourse, why does that mean he has to stop, and finish by hand? And why isn't SHE finishing him by hand, or by mouth?
Part of my prob as an LDW had nothing to do with sexual technique or my ability (or his ability) to O. Sex wasn't the actual problem, though that is what was getting blamed... for everything!!
And even though the guy does sound generous, this sitch just doesn't sound healthy to me... if THEY are both happy, tho, then that's all that really matters.