Quoting lostlove: I think LL needs to start listening for something other than what she wants to hear!!!
By concentrating so much attention attention on trying to see & hear what we want, we miss most of the sights & sounds around us. Once we realize that, its like seeing the world for the first time and wonder how we could have missed in the first place?
It the a great time of year to start take time to smell the flowers, listen to the birds, watch for the ways our spouses say ILY.
You are incrediable DBer! 
