He keeps saying things like "She has to see it; I made it through."
WHOA.. that is really really worrying. That sounds like an affair partner, who has "done his part of the deal", and is now waiting for her to follow through with her part of it.
I see what you mean, but I don't think so. He met her after we finalized. (I know that for certain.) I suspect, as I mentioned above, it's his way of validating/justifying what happened...that it was worth the effort, no matter how hard.
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you may have to deal with the issue that part of him wants to be with you.. and part of him wants to be with her... and when she's free, that "other part" may actually go right out the door and be with her, unless he decides to give her up before then.
It's possible. I don't know. The competitive scorekeeper in me wants to shout "No one has ever beat me before!" lol But I'm making it a point to not put myself into comparison anymore.
I also think he may lose interest before she actually gets moved out. From what I understand, it'll be several more months before she can legally hold a job in the US. But this is a guess. He has been incredibly open, and even more appreciative lately. I got more thank yous and such last night.
He also gave me a kiss this morning. Been awhile since he's done that. (Outside of ML.)
Been awhile since he's done that. (Outside of ML.)
