trusting that it's for real.

[TonyP]

so in your case it's not such a bad idea to show her the book.

LL,

Oh no,I didn't give her the book for us! I just don't want her to make the same mistakes when she marries OG, because I love her so much, and have to let her go, and be her best friend, become the best person I can for ME and my friends, family, children, everybody that goes to church, the choir, and take care of myself!!! (with my hand)

Isn't that DB'ing? (Or in my case MB'ing)

T ny

[sage]

I think LL needs to start listening for something other than what she wants to hear!!!

Yes -- you got it!!! It's not always in the language that we like or think that we need or find it easiest to understand. If you can learn to hear it in a variety of ways -- you win!

I got goosebumps!

Sage

[shinybear]

Shiny

[TonyP]

is he trying to show me without saying the words??

YES, YES, YES!!!!

Wow, how did I miss this!!! Remember, not too excited!

I think LL needs to start listening for something other than what she wants to hear!!!

I think you have been telling me that for a month, practice what you preach!!!

T ny

[scarche]

Thanks for responding to me last week. Sorry things are or were getting you down.

Pleas read my thred and tell me what you think. Interesting things happened yesterday.

Thanks,
Steve

[erinr]

Hey LL,

I just got caught up. It's only been 1 week and I had 3 pages to read!!!! I'm glad you seem so much calmer now. I was getting worried for your mental health!! Did you think about maybe seeing your C alone for at least 1 session before you bring H. You have lots of anger to get out to someone and it might be better if H didn't get to hear all of the uncensored ranting. JMHO
In an earlier post you said

there are more important things for me to deal with than whether or not sussie cancer pants is still a customer or not.

I know it isn't right, But I was ROTF LMAO . My s3 came up to see what was so funny. You're awesome.

Hey, I guess we get to be the youngsters on piecing together! I'll be 30 in Nov. Though it does make me wonder what the hell is wrong with me that my M is in so much trouble when we're so young

Hope you're having a better week!

Erin

[lisakate32]

ll, hurray! lisa

[knowledgeispower]

Hello LL,

So glad you are better!

Kip

[hoping]

Great..LL...I knew with that level (very young) head of yours you would rationalize...h may not SAY the words but you are seeing them....grasp them.

Sue

[dotto]

LL,

Could you stop by Seperated or Surviving the Big D and give me your wise thoughts?

Thanks,

Dotto