Let's look at the simple fact that you are on a DIVORCE BUSTING message board BEFORE you are even married!
uhm...Red flag.
I do feel for you though. I probably had some of the same feelings you did before I got M (12 years ago and 2 kids later) but at least you are not in total denial like I was that things would be fine. You are HERE so you know there is big trouble ahead. Don't second guess yourself..your gut. You know the answer.
People's sex drive is not something you can easily change. In fact, almost impossible. Can you accept her for who she is?
but at least you are not in total denial like I was that things would be fine. You are HERE so you know there is big trouble ahead. Don't second guess yourself..your gut. You know the answer. 
