What does my XW Want?

[Confused_in_AZ]

As I mentioned in an earlier post, life is crazy for me so a belated thanks to those who posted before.

I am still in the same place as before. Having a difficult time moving forward I must say. Feeling good, but realizing that I am not making much headway.

Pretty funny story, and not sure if this is a common one or not. I just got back from a work conference this past weekend. Had a date with a gal that I have known for about three years but have never met in person. Nature of my work.

Her, her employee and I went out to dinner with me and Sara going out for drinks and things afterward. Dinner is going extremely well, all of us having a great time. The worker mentions that when I call their office, they announce that "sara's boyfriend is on the line". Nevermind the fact that we have never met, she actually has a boyfriend, and she lives completely across the US!

Later on during the date when we are alone having drinks, I must have said something and she reponds with "wow, you sound just like my XH!" Just as she says that, I realized, she is my XW! Down to the family background and all!

Not sure what it means....am I still in love with the XW or is she the type of person that I am searching for? Not sure and completely over analyzing!

Hope you all are well!