You didn't hear a thing that anyone told you. Your engaged to be married, at this point in your relationship there is no compromise when it comes to sex. Compromise is what MARRIED people do "BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO". YOUR NOT MARRIED!!!!
Your HD, she is LD. Think about how bad your incompatibility is now, and multiply that by 100x and that is where you will be in 5 years. If you marry this woman, not only will you make yourself miserable for the rest of yor life, YOU WILL MAKE HER MISERABLE FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE!
GET OUT NOW!!! Love without DESIRE is worthless. It takes DESIRE to hold people together, and SHE HAS NONE!
Don't look back and see your marriage day as the BIGGEST mistake of your life!!! Your chances of a successfull marriage to this woman are 0%.
