Cat, your location says East Coast. Just curious what state as I am in PA. We can't be too far, huh?

SIL is a little juvenile as well, using my H as her substitute H. (Hers passed in '02.) Oh, and he was an alcoholic. Ironic, huh? That the two of them are drinking buddies? She is totally a bad influence on H. But he doesn't see it as he sees nothing wrong with that behavior. I have never approved of bar hopping or drinking, whether I was 21 or 41. And especially not every single week when you are a parent! Great example. Just me I suppose.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08