Yeah, I like the b-card idea. That was actually my first thought when reading your initial concern over the b-day. I did the same thing when asking my WAW to watch dvd's, etc... Your spouse is not stupid. She heard you the first time, just like mine did. When they want to do something with us, they will let us know. If I continue to ask her, she will just feel pursued, pressured, etc... same situation I think. She knows it's her b-day and knows your offer on the table. If it were me, I wouldn't get my hopes up. It feels like a date to me. Perhaps, it will get her thinking of you, past morning routines, past dinners, etc... and that can't be all bad. Who knows? These spouse creatures are an odd group...lol.
