I am really concerned for you. Your bf should be able to step up to the plate the little bit you are asking for and if he can't......well then I'm not sure he is worth your trouble. Now, if you had told me that you just can't seem to break up because you and he had fabulous, frequent sex then I could understand not being able to break up. However, no sex AND no assistance, caring, service while ill? Unacceptable! I wish I could be of some help to you. Would his daughter(s) be willing to help a bit?
