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LL,
You never did say who told you not to give a copy of DR to your H?

Tony


in one of my very first posts here I mentioned wanting to give a copy to h...I was told not to..it was my secret weapon...I've also heard others told not to.

at the time while h was out...it may not have done any good...I think that in your case it would not be the words in the book but the fact that you made the effort in the first place...you wouldn't make the effort to keep the gum on your shoe would you?? if it finally fell off you wouldn't argue or try to keep it there. right??

so in your case it's not such a bad idea to show her the book.

jmho!

LL