Thanks, Lin. You really help me confirm my decision. I have second thoughts about moving because really, I would have so much more going at home, careerwise and friendshipwise. But I know my priority is my family and my husband.
I know H is trying to break it off, but I also know that he is having a hard time, not only because he is not over her (guilt), but also OW is very good in what she is doing. Not pushing, not pleading. She is doing the same thing as us DBers. She only wants to talk to him because that's what he is willing to give now. I am sure down the road if H slips, she will welcome him with open arms. Right now she just want to stay in the picture. That's why I am scared. but I know I cannot let her take control of my feelings.
Lin, knowing the timeline of your h's contact with OW, helps me in having patience in mine. I just love this board.
Now I have to go back to baking. Holiday is such a busy time for cooking for school :-)
