He says that all he wants is for me to do what he says! He said he shouldn't have sent me the e-mail about Tennessee, he should have sent one that says, "DO what I say!" He says that's all I want, just do what I say.
That's what you may have INTERPRETED what he said... but I have difficulty believing that is literally what he said. Do you really recall, word for word, what he said?
That is word for word what he said to me. It's not my interpretation.
I guess when I said I'd lose myself, I feel like I can't have or express my opinion on anything. I'm not making a tally, like I'll only give him 90% or something like that. It's just that I'd like to be able to give input and make decisions as well.
He told me last night that he'd never ask me to do anything illegal or immoral, but I should do everything he asks of me. I'm beginning to feel that this isn't the way I want to live. I can't believe he's asking me to live this way. I mean, we'd definately not have arguments, but I'd also not be living.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
