To our BTDT veterans of Dbing,

I asked H if he even WANTS to have sex (b/c he does but he just does not seem into it), in regards to any physical contact I seems to initiate all hugs, kisses and just about any sex...

Is this normal - I guess it must be considering he says he does not feel love towards me.... Do I stop initiating or just keep going on with the 'act if...'

I feel I should continue --to help build our closeness??? But not sure...

Thanks!

HB


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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