I think by seeing a C, they could help you deal with the sitch you're in. They can't help H if he doesn't want to go, but can help you. As far as MLCers running off with someone 20yrs younger, part of MLC is they see themselves aging in the mirror. By attracting a younger woman they feel younger. I read somewhere that when you hear the ILYBINILWY speech they are 50 to 75% of the way through their MLC. Wr

What kind of dogs do you breed, I have a black lab. She has a lot of problems with her ears, vet says food allergies.

My W& I are still married for now, bee S since 7/12, she filed for D on 11/09, but I haven't been served yet. I was think of talking to my W this weekend, I'll say;

E I want you to know I love you, I've always loved you and I will always love you even though I didn't show or tell you enough it is true. I have bee through some tough times since we separated as well as you have too. My love for you is so deep that I couldn't face the possibility of you not in my life. When we married I expected to marry only once and to remain committed to you for life. It has caused me great pain to see our relationship unravel and come apart.

I know you want to divorce and I know I cannot force you to stay and work on our marriage no more than I could have forced you to marry me. When I asked you to marry me I didn't beg, plead , bribe or twist your arm to do so, you said yes on your own free will. I have no choice but to let you go.This whole experience has been painful for me as well as you also, but we'll make it.

You were my first and only true love. We raised four great children together and have many wonderful memories that we shared. Don't loose site of those times. I will continue to pray for us and trust God will guide us.

As I said before I love you, have always loved you and will always love you. I know you must be going through turmoil yourself. I want you to know that I will wait for you. If ever you want to reconcile, I would love to work on our relationship. If that day comes nothing that has happened will matter, we will start from that point forward. For now I would like to remain friends. Please feel free to call and talk to me about anything.

With all my LOVE
Me



Is that too much? I want to possibly leave the door open. I'll continue to DB. I will wait but can't guarantee forever.


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26