Quote: what h means in saying his feelings for her are irrelevant
What he means, LL, is yes he has feelings for OW. But it is irrelevant to how he feels about you! He loves you! Men have a hard time saying that! I'm 54 years, and just started telling my 82 year old mother that I love her! And have also started telling my W of 30 years together, that I love her ( before I knew about A & D) Maybe that showed some weakness on my part, and that's why she dumped me???
Face it, LL, H will always have feelings for OW, and so will you! Your feelings are hate and hurt, but they are feelings, and they will NEVER GO AWAY! Live with it, accept it, and get over it! I told you, I still have feelings for my girlfriend 37 years ago, but they are irrelevant! I guess now my feelings for W are irrevelant now to especially to her!
Your posts are getting a LITTLE shorter. That's a good sign, simmer down now, simmer down!
