I see what you're saying, but I don't agree with it as a blanket statement. In addition, there are people here who have tried their darndest to save their marriages and finally came to the conclusion that they have to move on. This board is for them too.

I agree completely. Sometimes you reach a point in this crisis, usually years into it, where you feel healthier attempting to move on, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.