Count to 10 befored responding, it also looks like you are listening.

Remind yourself not to initiate ANY R talks.

Ask yourself is what I am about to say going to hurt or help my goal to be married.

Be pleasant and funny, (not sarcastic or self effacing) I hear chicks like that. : )


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet