The sound you just heard was of hundreds of readers of this post, and the authors of the responses, collectively hitting their heads on a wall. Clearly, you heard nothing. If you choose to move forward, consider yourself warned and don't look for sympathy when it goes the way it is universally predicted by those who have lived it.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
