I am asking that the board be re-dedicated to the standers on this board.
How about those of us who are now divorced, whether we wanted it or not? I am now in the "surviving the big D" forum because I am...surviving the big D. And I believe that this board is for me and those like me, as well as those still trying to save their marriages.
I see what you're saying, but I don't agree with it as a blanket statement. In addition, there are people here who have tried their darndest to save their marriages and finally came to the conclusion that they have to move on. This board is for them too.
I say this without ill will towards you as you've obviously said this with good intent and forethought. I agree that if you're still trying to save your marriage you shouldn't be in another relationship - and ESPECIALLY if you use this site to find that other relationship. I just don't think that once a marriage is over this shouldn't still be a place one can go to help cope with that as well.
Kev
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius
"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel." -Adm. D.G. Farragut
Kevin-38; XW-36 M-2.5, together 4 Bomb-1/6/07; D-6/27/07
