Quote: And about it being a PA, could be, might not be. How does he answer you when you ask about this? (I'm curious as my H's lies followed patterns I've read about for people who are lying).
answers range from...no..it wasn't like that...it just never happend....there's nothing more to say....
sometimes I "feel" like he's about to tell me something....but doesn't...
who knows...
at this point it doesn't really matter...he's home...I've accepted him home even though some part of me already believes it was a pa...so why tourment myself with the question again...maybe someday his answer will change but for now I've stopped asking.
the current issue for me is the fact that h intends to keep ow as a customer....possibly hoping that she sells the house and therefore he will not be the one to break the "business" end of the r.
h knows how it hurts me...last night I did get a hug that I did not initiate...one of those hugs that says something...you don't know exactly what they're saying but they're saying something...
this is a stressful time of year for h...I've said my peace about the ow as customer issue...it's now h's to deal with.
