Thanks all for the validation. It feels like the right thing to do, but I can't ever be sure these days.

PM - I have distanced myself as much as I think humanly possible. I only talk to her if she calls me (with the exception of last Thursday) and I haven't been picking up the calls right away. I'll usually call her back hours or even a day later. I haven't seen her in close to a month. So, in hind sight, I can see where asking her to dinner for her birthday would be like asking her out on a date. I got her some presents too, and now I'm debating on whether she'll get them or not. I think that I have to give her at least one because she knows that I got her at least one thing. This is so hard and confusing.


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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