Well, maybe you could drive all the way out there and leave it on her car? Maybe a quick call is the best idea.

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I'm worried that if I don't call her, I might be distancing myself too much.


That's the whole idea, you are supposed to distance yourself \:\) But I do think your last suggestion is the best, just a quick call and then no mention of dinner. She can ask if she is that interested, you have already suggested it. Don't pursue further.

Oh, and I do think you are db'ing in showing her that you are still a thoughtful person by thinking of her on her bday.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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