Quote: Of course it was a PA, accept it and move on. He's home, enjoy every second of it, it will do you good. He knew her before he knew you! It's over between them, they don't want to end their friendship! Should they? YES! Can they? NO!
ok #1 he did not know her before he knew me... #2 I'd move on from it being a pa if it was told to me by h and not denied...h says no and I want to believe him but I don't want to believe a lie.
h did not even have his business when I met him....ow's house did not even exist when I met him..she did not live in the state when I met him...they met becuase her house was built and she needed a landscaper...called one in the neighborhood (my h) and that is how they met...he did not spend time with her til about 7 years ago and that time was spent only while he was working there (other then her holiday party that she'd invite the whole crew to) he had feelings for her when she made a call to other customers on the street when they were going to drop him as a result of billing conflict.
if she was someone who exhisted before we met??
she was married and had children or at least a child when he met her....he was with me when he met her...
I suppose none of it really matters...
somedays I believe h and other days I think he's lying through his teeth.
whatever will be will be...
Quote: they don't want to end their friendship! Should they? YES! Can they? NO!
YES tey can!!!! h ended his r with me when he decided to walk out the door...he can certainly end his r with her now and that includes the business part of it!!
