Plank removed from eye, too late for WAW? 8

[Pudmuddle]

Hi Heimster,

I can't say I blame you for even pushing for a small positive. It has only been almost 2 months for me since D-day and I so want H to SPEAK. It gets very tiring waiting, waiting, waiting. I would say get out more...do more than you are already doing to GAL. Perhaps you need to fill your brain with other different things. You said she thinks in those terms, well maybe she USED to, but now she does not...she has changed into a different person as have you. Hate to be harsh here, but maybe that's the case.

I try to think of H now as someone I could possible date again, so I have what Michelle calls the beginners mind in that sense. So I have to work at trying to build his friendship all over again as darkly strange as that feels. Then sometimes I look at him and think 'do I really want to be with someone who is that weak?' LOL

My H has recently gotten into making sure everyone around us knows we are getting a D, making it sound to them like I want this too, but he has YET to do anything about it as far as I am concerned. Not filing, not leaving house, not spending all his time with OW. very curious and I find it very amusing.

Detaaaaaaaaaaaaaach again. I know I will need this reminder, so I hope you will be there for me too Heim!