Thanks for the suggestions. I don't want her to feel any pressure. The card suggestion is good, but unfortunately she lives 30 minutes away now so that might be hard to pull off. It's kind of a thing in her family that you call them on their birthday if you're not going to see them. I'm worried that if I don't call her, I might be distancing myself too much. Right now, I'm leaning towards a quick call in the afternoon just to say happy birthday and not bringing up taking her out to dinner on the weekend.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
It's kind of a thing in her family that you call them on their birthday if you're not going to see them. I'm worried that if I don't call her, I might be distancing myself too much. Right now, I'm leaning towards a quick call in the afternoon just to say happy birthday and not bringing up taking her out to dinner on the weekend.
