Input, WH and I own business together

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micoms,
hi again. When my father had open heart surgery, of course no one tells him about the shock to his body and depression to follow. So he went way to deep into depression.
You must exercise as soon as Dr. says you may and only do what dr. says, no more and no less. Before you know it, you will be doing ANYTHINg you want. Yes, H is still with OW. They live in another state and he comes up to meet with clients, field work, etc. Or some how we have to talk on phone about our business. Although I am not able (health wise) to work very much in business. I had started back working "a little bit" just before he left. Now I will not go into the field with him. Told H. was just to depressioning and I had to stop letting him hurt me.
When H. is in town for business I can see him if I wanted to. For example he put a new furnace in MY house for me. lol Use to be Our house. We are really short on cash and god bless him he trys so hard to keep business expenses down. When in town I think he sleeps in a truck stop. We talk ok, as long as the R does not come up. We use to raise show dogs together. at least he signed over to me all rights to dogs ASAP as i wanted. Big game D lawyers play with the pets/ dogs. ie, want my client to give up rights to dogs, then you give him XYZ. so I am clear of that danger.