[/quote]He sent some texts telling me goodnight and that he loves the baby. No ILY to me. I was cheery in my response, but was sad inside. [quote]
Why did you even respond? You don't need to respond to every text or call, especially if they don't contain positive things in them. It sounds like he is trying to get to you.
Trying to maintain some sort of independance is fine as we don't want to loose who we are. Men also need there time in the cave but, the fact that he "can't deal" with his children tells me he has a lot of growing up to do IMO.
Stay dark and don't let him know that you are sad. ACT AS IF you are fine on your own.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez