One more comment, you are marrying her now for who she is, and that would be very LD. You would have no right to expect her to change since you know what she is. It would be completely wrong of you to marry her and THEN expect her to change.
Remember this point, the quality of a marriage is ALWAYS directly related to the difference in sex drives. Quality marriages RARELY have large discrepencies in sex drives. If both are high, great. If both are low, great. One low and one high, INCOMPATIBLE.
You must be fair to HER. You will BOTH end up resenting each other because you are INCOMPATIBLE. THis board is proof enough of that. You in effect must love her enough to let her go and find a man that will be more suitable for her. Why do you want to make her life a living hell?
