Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

I think a lot of people feel the same as you do - While losing one's spouse is a very difficult experience, it can also be liberating. I'm only now realizing that I feel much better about myself now I'm not living with W - Does that mean I don't ever want to live with W? Hell no, but I do really like my alone time now. The good thing is that after time alone, the time we spend together seems to be much more enjoyable for both of us.

Yes, I've noticed it has been fun to NOT have to ask someone's opinion on simple everyday things. I also realized last night how WONDERFUL it was to be able to stretch all the way across my Cal King size bed!!! and have no one moving the covers, jarring the bed, or snoring. LOL

That's why I like talking to you Brit, I enjoy being around people who have a positive spin! It helps me realize I can be more positive too, especially hanging out with optimistic peeps.