Won't your boys let him know how dissapointed they are? Maybe that would have a bigger effect on him that you telling him.

After the funeral you just can't believe he would act like that!!

(((((HUGS)))))

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength