With my dh it could be many reasons why he acts this way.
He does like being alone at times. But to me that is not normal to want your family sometimes and not others. He really can't even deal with his own kids when they are with him 2 or 3 nights a week and seem relieved when they go to a friends house instead.
He is also dead set on maintaining his independence. He would say in the beginning that he refuses to move quickly with all of this. I don't know if that is so he can cake eat or if its for really good reasons.
He sent some texts telling me goodnight and that he loves the baby. No ILY to me. I was cheery in my response, but was sad inside.
Guess he is happy just being a part time dad and family guy.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!