very glad you weren't upset about H fixing the tile. You definitely want to encourage him on those kinds of things. It will help boost his ego which he needs, and is probably part of the reason he hasn't done much.

IMHO I still wouldn't say anything to H about changing rooms. I wouldn't even tell him that night. I would just act as if that is what he wanted, and even playfully/flirty tell him goodnight and head off to YOUR room in a subtle sexy outfit/nighty. I think that would be great! He's probably gonna be dying that first night! Then, if he asks about it, you can tell him, you knew that he wanted space and you think it's a good idea. If he has a bad reaction to it... I would just wait it out for a bit. I really really doubt he's going to react in anger or anything like that.

Good job going to your dance class! I wish I could take it with you! I'm gonna have to be brave like you and find one for me. not sure that I'd do bellydancing...I think I'd be too embarrassed! Although my aunt did it for several years and she said it was the best workout and kept her tummy strong and flat.

oh, about your H pretending it's all back to normal. that could be, but I thought the same thing with MY H, and there was still a time where he had asked me to stay at my moms longer than I planned and I was really confused whether to do it for him or not (thinking, he could quite possibly bring that OW to our house or him go there), but I did do it, and by 3 weeks he couldn't help but text me that he wanted me to be his W forever and I think (can't remember for sure) he said he was sorry about everything. That was something I thought I'd never hear, and that instead, he would just pretend it was over and never happened. (especially the type of guy he is.. never ever ever shares his emotions with me, unless it's anger about a football game or work.)
So, my point, is he may very well say something to you sometime, but it's not important at this time because of where you are and what your plans are right now.

And How awesome he called you 3 times at work!!!! it's so funny. just don't start letting your expectations set back in. continue to keep them low.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."