I'm OK. Yesterday was really really tough. My H came by in the morning and one of the boys rode with him and one with me to the funeral. He was kinda short yesterday but I think his emotions were on high from loosing one of his best friends. He got nicer and thanked me for being supportive of our friends kids. It was just a tough deal over 1000 people at this funeral. This guy had an influence on alot of people and kids it such a shame. M H came home for a while the boys were there the he left. He told me he had plans for Thanksgiving if we could have dinner at my parents another day. I didn't want to make a scene with the boys there but I am so mad. Now i don't know whether to just leave it a lone or confront him and tell him he is letting her come between his boys and him. I told him he should have learned yesterday how important yesterday was. He is definitely in a mlc. He thinks that he won't move a head if he comes home. He will fall right back in this old ways. She does have control on him....Any advice anyone?