Input, WH and I own business together

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I know about the depression, I've felt it. 4 weeks out from surgery, I feel good, Can't go back to work until 1/15/08. I'm bored outta my mind!!

How long ago did the health problems, parents deaths (yours or his?) & business issues come along? All of these are issues a MLC. My wife is going through that now. I suspect she's had a couple of affairs during this, although she didn't move in with them. We're separated she lives with D24.

I wouldn't except a three part family. Does he still live with OW? Do you see him outside of the business? I would try to GAL. Easier said than done in our situations. Try finding something you've wanted to do and do it. Have you been to any counseling? Go for yourself if he won't go with you.

Are you pursuing him? If so stop. Remain friends, it will keep communication open. I'm new to this also, been lurking reading others sitchs.