lostlove, your request that H drop OW as a customer is not at all unreasonable.
you've made the request
and H denied
Now, what are your boundaries? What is acceptable? If H's refusal in unacceptable, then you absolutely must decide what you're going to do about it.
Like TonyP, YOU must take 100% responsiblity for the care of your own self worth and pride. Get your pride back. You are SO worth it even if H doesn't validate that.
If H is so in love with the OW, he should be with her. Let her wash his friggin boxers and rub his back.
It's like this, if a stranger in the grocery store was mean to your child, you'd not hesitate one iota telling that stranger where to stick it. If you're non-confrontational, then you quickly remove your child and talk smack about crazy strangers, right?
Now, you are neglecting your own *inner* child by letting this *stranger* hurt her. Tell the stranger where to stick it. Remove your child from the weirdo's wrath, give her a hug and tell her you'll always love and take care of her. And DO IT.
Maybe it's time for H to face reality? YOUR reality!!!
