I heard the "I'm done" also and now we're doing really well.

I would honestly sit him down and let him know how sincere you are in wanting to work your M issues/problems out. Let yourself be vunerable during this convo. Show him how much you love him and are willing to do the work it takes. I never realized how much effort it actually takes to keep an M on the right track. Then get busy showing him w/ your actions how serious you are about it.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10