I just so hope and hope that it is worth it at the end. H has been nice but who knows if he calls OW also? He has met some new people, a few whose family is not there (kids too old to move, wife does not want to move, etc.). I get a sick feeling that they will go out and "have fun". Unlikely actually for my H to do that. But I keep thinking "well anything can happen now". Have to thought stop.